The Unexpected Book That Changed My Style Forever
It was a crisp autumn morning when I caught my reflection in the mirror—something felt different. After months of dedicated self-work and fitness training (which you can read more about in my blog post “Beyond the Scale: A Letter to Women Chasing External Validation”), I wasn't just seeing physical changes; I was witnessing the emergence of someone new—someone who finally felt at home in her own skin. The woman staring back at me had a sparkle in her eyes that spoke of self-discovery and growing confidence.
While documenting my transformation journey for a podcast, I felt a deeper calling stirring within. I wanted to inspire other women to discover their authentic selves, but something was missing. That's when a serendipitous discovery - a book that would become my personal brand bible - unexpectedly changed the course of my journey. (Want to know which book transformed my style journey? Read my blog post “The Mindful Style Evolution Guide: Transforming Your Wardrobe Through Self-Discovery & Personal Branding")
Hidden within its pages, Chapter 13 posed a question that stopped me in my tracks: "What do you want to be known for?" The words echoed in my mind as I created my first Pinterest board dedicated to style. Each pin became more than just an image—it was a piece of the woman I was becoming—elegant, sophisticated, authentic.
With 174 carefully curated pins reflecting my vision, I took a leap of faith and signed up for a styling app service. I remember the anticipation as I uploaded my Pinterest board, hoping my stylist would understand the story I wanted to tell through my clothes.
The journey wasn't without its challenges. My first package arrived, and my heart sank - the pieces didn't match my envisioned elegance. But something inside me knew to trust the process. Twelve packages later, I stood before a closet that finally told my story. Each piece whispered of the woman I had become - confident, purposeful, and graceful.
Looking back, I realize this transformation was never just about clothes. It was about honoring my inner growth with my outer expression. Today, whether I'm shopping at Nordstrom or reviewing my next shipment, I choose pieces that align with my authentic self. I'm no longer just dressing my body; I'm dressing my soul.
And that woman in the mirror? She now radiates the confidence she feels inside, wrapped in elegance that tells her story without saying a word. This is how I learned to show up in the world - with style, grace, and, most importantly, authenticity.
Your Turn to Reflect:
When you look in the mirror, does your reflection tell the story you want to share with the world?
What would your personal style evolution look like if you let your inner transformation guide your choices?
How can you begin crafting a wardrobe that honors who you are and who you're becoming?
Ever caught yourself in the mirror feeling disconnected from your reflection? I've been there - when your inner growth outpaces your outer expression.
My style transformation journey was full of trial and error, and I wish I'd had someone to guide me through it.
If you're ready to bridge that gap between who you are and how you present yourself:
Want to DIY? Check out my guide "The Mindful Style Evolution Guide" where I share exactly what worked for me
Prefer community support? Join us and our many conversations - your journey doesn't have to be a solo one
